Upcoming Events
Now offering soft events
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Now offering soft events 💚
Soft events are marked with an asterik (*) next to them.
They are categorized as events that are open to all, regardless of membership or vetting status. Cis/het men are welcomed to come solo to soft events. Age restrictions may apply, please read individual event descriptions.
They are typically casual, public, social gatherings for our community to continue building real connections beyond the play space. They will often be free of charge to attend, and a great opportunity for interested non-members to get to know us.
Both soft events and play parties are listed on this page.
Do not plan to come to play parties if you’re not an approved and vetted member.
Casino Party
— Play parties are for approved vetted members only —
We're at the South Philly house for casino-themed night!
Come roll the dice, play your hand, and definitely get lucky.
Chips stay up: We’re going to have table games with dealers for the fun of it all. We will not be gambling for real — You get chips to play and enjoy yourself. Run out of chips? There’s more on standby.
Dress code: Dress like you’ve got something to win. Think high rollers, card sharks, and late-night decadence: sharp suits, slinky dresses, lingerie under layers, silk, satin, leather. (Poker face optional)
Doors close at 10:30 PM! Don’t be late ❤︎
Accessibility: Four small steps with an iron railing to the front door. Full flight of stairs to the bathroom and bedrooms with a wood banister.
Tickets available soon
CAMPING: Overnight Play Party
— Play parties are for approved vetted members only —
An idea we’ve had for over a year finally being brought to life!
We’re going DEEP into the forest and taking over an entire campsite in NJ, just an hour outside of Philly. Here’s what to expect:
LIVE DJ’s ALL NIGHT! We’ve got the entire site to ourselves and going to have a true never-ending forest party.
Consent talk at 9:00pm: Please plan to arrive before then. You can arrive as early as 2pm, and leave whenever or stay overnight until noon on Sunday.
CAMPING not glamping — there’s no plumbing or electricity. We are going to a primitive campground so plan accordingly.
Community Carpool: We will create an editable spreadsheet to coordinate ridesharing.
Affordable: $25/per person to cover generator cost, campground fee, entertainment and supplies.
Bring Your Own:
Sleeping arrangements: Tent, sleeping bag, pillows, inflatable mattress, hammocks.
Seating arrangements: Camp chairs, picnic blankets, foldable tables.
Toiletries: Towels, soaps, bugspray, sunscreen, toothbrush, products, wipes, etc.
Meals and cookware: Each campsite has a fire ring equipped for cooking over. We will offer some sharable snacks but we are all responsible for our own meals.
Extra clothes: For change in temperature, weather, and overall vibe!
Contribute more than you take from the space: This is an important pillar of all of our parties, but will be especially important at this one. In the spirit of camping, bring stuff to share! Extra firewood, your favorite game, additional trash bags, battery-operated lights.
More info about the site:
The Campground: One big group site where the party will take place + 12 individual campsites (2 cars max per campsite) in the loop for sleeping.
Potable water well is on site with unlimited water for drinking and washing. Bring a refillable waterbottle.
Compost toilet is the only bathroom.
How will we shower? Of course we’re gonna wanna wash up! We’re bringing this portable shower device that everyone can use.
We are located next to a small river and a long hiking trail :-)
Leave no trace: It’s very important that we take care of the forest that allows us to enjoy it! We are responsible for cleaning up after ourselves and taking our trash with us to dispose in civilization.
Pool Party
— Play parties are for approved vetted members only —
We’ve secured the mansion of our dreams for our annual POOL PLAY PARTY!
More details coming soon.
We’re sharing the date so you can lock it into your calendar. This is absolutely going to be an unskippable event.
Tickets available soon
Flora & Flesh
— Play parties are for approved vetted members only —
We're back at the South Philly house for a spring celebration!
Come see how the night blooms, swap nectar, and shed the winter blues.
Dress code: Think petals, spring fairies, butterflies, birds and bees, all emerging for the season of rebirth! Georgia O’Keeffe’s sapphic flowers... Garden of Eden after-hours… Make it fun, make it sexy!
Doors close at 10:30 PM! Don’t be late ❤︎
Accessibility: Four small steps with an iron railing to the front door. Full flight of stairs to the bathroom and bedrooms with a wood banister.
Tickets available now: Get them HERE
SEXY CINEMA: Play Party
— Play parties are for approved vetted members only —
New Location Alert!! We’re taking over a 4,000 sq. ft. Fishtown loft for a Sexy Cinema afterparty to HUMP! Film Festival:
Sexy Cinema theme: Dress as a beloved movie character and commit to the bit. We’ve got fresh popcorn for our voyeurs enjoying the action!
Special amenities: indoor jacuzzi tub, group rainfall shower, ping pong and pool table.
Four private bedrooms for your chosen plot twists
Live DJs all night: Lineup TBD
Free food, paid bar
We’re heading to HUMP! Film Festival’s 6:30pm screening at Fringe Bar (separate tickets, see previous event), and then rolling straight into the main feature.
Bonus: show proof of your HUMP! ticket and unlock discounted play party entry.
You are not required to attend both HUMP! and the play party… Feel free to come to one or the other, but bonus points for making it out to both!
All guests must arrive before 10:00PM
TICKETS AVAILABLE NOW — Log into member portal for ticket access
*HUMP! Film Festival
Your YES! hosts are honored to have their animated film, “Prey For Sex” featured in Dan Savage’s HUMP! Film Festival.
This event is not officially affiliated with YES! — It’s open to the public, and we are going to this festival as a group activity. Afterwards, we are having our own play party in a private loft (9PM) which is a separate ticket, separate event. (Tickets coming soon)
If you choose to come with us to HUMP! Film Festival, purchase your ticket here and choose the 6:30PM screening!
If you’re a vetted member, you are entitled to a discount for your play afterparty ticket with proof of purchase of your HUMP! ticket.
*Bowling
Our very first SOFT EVENT!
You can pay for your bowling spot/shoes at the door, prices are as follows:
$7 per person/per game
$6 shoe rental per person
(CASH ONLY for Bowling)
You can still join even if you don’t intend to bowl. Sit with us, mingle, and enjoy the connections. We love North Bowl because they’ve got lots of delicious food and drinks. You can order your own food/drinks at your discretion. They also have a REAL FILM photobooth which is super fun :-)
This is a 21+ event.